The #EverydayVictories of A Mom

When I first heard about Kroger’s Every Day Victories Campaign I started to think about my own life and some of the recent victories in our family. It didn’t take me long to come to the conclusion that there is a new victory EVERY DAY in the life of a mom.

Over the last 15 months I’ve watched Baby E grow daily and reach new milestones, from rolling over for the first time, then crawl, then take her first few steps. Those are all victories in my mind.  Right now we currently in the exploring stage, experiencing new boundaries and learning how to communicate stage. Every day Baby E tries something new, says a new word, or shows me how much she cares. Each and every one of those moments makes my heart melt and is a victory in the eyes of a mom.

But as a mom, sometimes an every day victory is not something the kids did but something WE did, or didn’t do.  Did you get up before the kids and work out? Did you manage to get all 7 loads of laundry done AND folded in one day? Or did you take time out for yourself and relax a little?


I’m going to get a little personal/serious with all of you today and share a HUGE victory I experienced not too long ago. One thing I don’t talk a lot about on my blog is my freelance work.

When Baby E was about 3 months old I wanted to start working part-time so I decided to start doing marketing/PR freelance work on the side. To my surprise it picked up really fast and before I knew it I was working 20+ hours a week writing proposals, developing creative campaigns and working with some incredible brands. It was my dream job. I could work from home while E was napping, continue to do work that I love, earn an income AND be a stay-at-home mom to my precious little girl. It was perfect.

But as Baby E got older, 3+ naps turned to 2, then down to 1 and soon the amount of time I was able to spend on freelance work was really limited. And just because my time was decreasing didn’t mean the work was following suit. Not only was time an issue, but as E got older I found myself not wanting to work on freelance projects because I wanted to play with her! I wanted to take trips to the zoo, go to the beach, take a long walk to the park and schedule more play dates but I always felt trapped by my freelance schedule and quick turnaround projects.

I hit a point where I was becoming so stressed out over balancing being a mom, household duties, spending time with family and friends and maintaining a blog. But the biggest issue was that I didn’t feel like I was being a good enough mom to E. Even though I tried REALLY hard to only work while she was sleeping and keep awake time for playing, I still felt the mommy guilt. It was taking a HUGE toll on my emotional state and I found myself always questioning my current situation.

I felt guilty for working because I felt like I should be focusing more time on being a mom but I felt guilty for not working because I had this amazing opportunity to make money while working from home.

For months I would wake up with this huge burden on my shoulders, trying to decide what I should do. I would pray and pray but I was not finding a clear answer. Do I suck it up, change my attitude and keep working like so many moms do? Or do I cut back on my clients and be a 100% full-time mom to E?


Since I am a HORRIBLY indecisive person, I was having a really difficult time making a decision until I one day I landed on this post from Alison at Oopsey Daisy (one of my favorite bloggers). It was JUST what I needed to read, someone else in a similar position that finally made her decision. Literally seconds after I read the post, I ran into the home office and told my husband that I made a decision. I was ready to quit outside work and just focus on E. I can’t thank Alison enough for writing that post, I felt like it was written just for me. It was my sign.

I made my decision a little over a month ago and I have been 100% free of ‘work’ for about 2 weeks. Sure, I still have my blog but I hardly consider this ‘work’. It’s what I do to relax!

I feel like a completely new person. When I play with E I feel like I am really playing with her. I don’t feel rushed during the day and I am even starting to plan nightly dinners and work on more projects around the house (I might actually finish the family room after 8 months). I feel like a new me. Right now I am truly happy. You know the type of happy when you feel your heart smile? :)


 I’m so grateful for my husband’s support and the ability for me to be a stay-at-home mom to E. I will go back to work one day… one day when the time is right!

That day, I learned that I don’t have to do EVERYTHING and it’s ok to say no. This decision was not only a victory for that day, but a huge victory for the month, may be even the year! Thank for reading my story!

So what about you, have you experienced an every day victory lately? I would love it if you shared. It can be something simple or something life changing.

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I was selected for participation in this campaign as a member of Clever Girls Collective.


Taryn is the owner/editor of Design, Dining and Diapers, a lifestyle blog that focuses on DIY home decor, design, seasonal crafts, easy recipes and just being a mom! She is all about making things for less by upcycling thrift store finds and using what’s on hand. Taryn lives in the greater Seattle area with her husband, 3 year old daughter and 1 year old son.

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  1. says

    Taryn- I loved that you shared this personal story with all of us. I actually love bloggers post the most when they share a side of themselves that they don’t too often.

    Congrats on making such a huge and in my opinion, awesome decision! I think your little girl will grow up so quickly and being able to focus 100% on her now is going to allow you to remember and appreciate so many more of those moments :)

    D and I just wrapped up about two months of non-stop traveling and out of town visitors, getting married, opening a tasting room, and maintaining a huge property and house that all to often gets crazy and I think we both accomplished a lot of little victories…keeping sane being one of them. lol.

    Although I’m not a mom (yet) nor do I work, it’s amazing how life can creep up and get so stressful. One thing I’m working on is allowing myself to rest more and not feel like I have to be the best all the time. That is a huge victory for me as I am a perfectionist and all too often compare myself to others. Just chilling out and accepting who I am has been huge!

    Anyway, thanks again for sharing and congrats!


    PS- I’d still love to do a Ad Swap if you’re interested!

  2. Trisha says

    I’m proud of you and this is very inspirational for me. Its hard to give up the income but what’s more important? The income or feeling fulfilled in life, whether thats being a stay at home mom or working as long as it fits you and your family. :)

  3. says

    Hi Taryn, That was a great post. I love that Alison’s post was a sign for you. I loved how she wrote about her feelings and why she was choosing to step back etc. It is so HARD to try and do everything and it takes the fun out of things. Sounds like you make a smart decision and you can always get back into your work, but your little one will only be this age once and you want to make the most of your time with her. xoxoxo

  4. says

    What a little journey I’ve been on… I follow you on Pinterest where I saw your pin for How to Create a Project Gallery… as someone who is just putting together a new blog I had recently been looking for this very thing. Great post btw and I can’t wait to look into it. In that post I was lead to your Top 10 blogging tips… again, exactly what I needed to read! Then came the link to this post. As a mama of an 18mo. old little boy, struggling with my identity {leaving a very satisfying career to be a stay-at-home mama}, I REALLY needed to read your words today! Thanks so much for sharing and thanks for writing from your heart!

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